Male Chastity Device
The right chastity device depends on a variety of factors:
~ The length, girth, and curve of your cock
~ The period of time you will be wearing it
~ Your comfort needs
- Cost
Some Cage Types to Look At
I feel the cock cage is the way to go for male chastity. Some of my favorites include the CB6000 Designer Line in Chrome. It has a sleek, modern look that I enjoy looking at. If you wish a tighter fit, you may wish to try the CB6000S. There is a model called The Curve if your cock has a distinct curve to it. Some people find this line of cages to work well for them. There are easy, quick fixes if you should find that a part rubs you the wrong way at times.
If you seek comfort, take a look at the Birdlocked Silicone Chastity Device. As the name states, it is made of pliable silicone. It must be slippery when put on and taken off or it sticks to the skin, but once on most find it very comfortable for longer wear. One thing I find fun about this cage is that, because it is made of soft silicone, it can be cut off if need be. Since I really like my chastity slaves to use their mental strength to stay in chastity, I like the idea of them knowing they could cut it off, but not doing so.
For a totally different design, look at the Locking Cock Cage on The Stockroom site. It is made of stainless steel and leather. It consists of one or two metal rings and a “stallion guard” on the end. This one exposes more of the penile flesh, but fits tightly and so inhibits erections and orgasms.
Cost
You can spend anywhere from about a hundred bucks for a 3D-printed device to thousands and thousands for one custom-made of stainless steel. If you’re just starting out, my advice is to stick with plastic. The most popular device is certainly the CB-6000 which will run you about $150. The other leading plastic device is the Holy Trainer. It costs a bit more (about $170). Custom stainless from manufactures such as Mature Metal in Texas or Steelworks in Germany will average about twice plastic once you factor in options (though they can be had for less with fewer bells and whistles [no, not literally bells and whistles]). The KHD X3 espresso can be had out the door for under $100, but it’s not without issues.
Pro Tip : If you go with the Holy Trainer, don’t buy it from their site. Some people end up getting charged exorbitant duty fees (though, for some reason, not all).
I wouldn’t cheap out on something that will spend hours and days locked onto what is likely the part of your body you have the closest and most emotional connection to. Buy name brands from reputable retailers and check Google for reviews. Cheap devices fail (usually by splitting along seams) which can lead to injury or they aren’t finished very well and have spots that rub or cause discomfort.
Thinking about a newbie, it’s hard not to give the edge in this category to the CB-6000. Its price is reasonable and you get a lot of sizing options in the box. The only thing you need to decide when ordering is how long you want the tube (and you probably want the short one, sorry).
Comfort
Enforced chastity is, by its definition, not always a walk in the park. Penises grow while devices don’t. However, it’s also not supposed to be a test of pain tolerance. In a well-fitted device, one’s discomfort should be limited to feeling the pressure of an erection being arrested and contained. Depending on how you’re wired, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Far from it.
The degree of comfort desired is also something of a personal choice. Some men and/or those who lock them up are trying to inflict erotic pain as part of the chastity experience. Some devices have add-ons or options specifically designed to make a penis trying to be erect very uncomfortable.
Security
To a large extent, the feeling of security is a product of fit. A loose, ill-fitting device won’t feel secure at all while a nice tight one will but may cause you too much pain to wear during the fun parts.
Some devices feel more secure as a result of their design. The Holy Trainer, for example, with its sleeker and simpler construction creates a greater illusion of security than the CB-6000
Hygiene
In general, metal stays cleaner than plastic and open designs like the Jail Bird stay fresher longer than closed tubes like on the Steelheart. This is another thing where fit is important. If the tube is well fitted with an absence of space inside while the penis is flaccid, more urine will flow out and less will be trapped. If the design features a cage, this is not an issue at all (though errant urine streams and splashing can be a problem).
If pee makes you Squamish, chastity may not be for you. It’s part of the bargain. That love rocket you’re having locked to the launch pad is also the main way you eliminate waste from your body. There’s just no getting around that chastity devices need to be attended to or they’ll start to stink
Do Your Homework
There are many types of cock cages and other chastity devices out there. Do a lot of online searches. Go to adult stores and check them out in person. I recommend going to online chastity forums and asking around for feedback. Think about whether you will be using it for short chastity assignments, or serious orgasm denial. Pay close attention to the recommended cock dimensions of each model. Make sure that the device will work for your cock. Sometimes they are adjustable for your length, but rarely for girth or curve. This will be a bit of an investment, so you want to make sure you get the right cage for you.
I consider a cock cage to be a useful sex toy to have for chastity, orgasm denial, tease and delay, and extreme cocktailing.
Mental Chastity
My preference is for a chastity slave to forgo the devices and be mentally locked. To be so very devoted to me that he would not dream of disobeying me. Even if he had extreme temptation, he would deny himself in the knowledge that I would be pleased. Are most men capable of this? No! Especially not at first. But it is something to work toward.
